How to
...Even If You've Struggled in the past
with Despair, Frustration,
and Disappointment...

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(or until the course is full, whichever is first)


What we do in the
Life By Design Course...

In the Life By Design Course, I am taking all the work that I’ve been doing over the last 20 years and distilling it for you into an 8 week course of:

  • Self-discovery
  • Alignment with purpose
  • Powerful healing communication

 ...and creation of an enlightening and proactive plan so that you move forward knowing your own truth - your true VOICE - to nourish yourself and your relationships with others from the place of your most authentic self.


Connect With
Your True VOICE!

6 Modules and Coaching to Guide Your Progress

Module 1:


Your identity makes you unique. In our work together you discover who you are at your essence. You will illuminate your true soul purpose and life lessons so that you can access choices that will allow ease and flow in your life..

Create the vision of your life with purposeful design.

Here, you'll align your vision with your true life purpose and your unique talents, gifts and passion.

Module 2:


Module 3:


​Stand with and for yourself...

...and choose what makes the most sense for you and your highest good.

Learn how to optimize your environment in order to set yourself up for success - physically, mentally and emotionally!

Learn the process to get clarity on your deepest WHY

Empower yourself to *feel* the magic of claiming your true purpose and declaring what is most exciting and motivating for you!

Module 4:


Module 5:


Time to make your plan!

Now is the time to create the steps to take you where you want to be.

You get to choose your path, and together we create an action plan that will hold you accountable, and keep pulling you forward toward your vision.

Creating your consciously and confidently chosen journey

Discovering and creating new, positive, supportive habits and tools that will carry you forward and best serve you in continuing your personal growth and forward momentum.

Module 6:


About Your Coach Kathleen...

My path in life has not been a traditional or easy one.

For years I struggled, trying over and over again, to fit into a mold that was not mine. Deep down I knew: what people in my environment thought I should do, be and have was not for me... but I didn't know how to "do" any differently. I found myself in crisis, lost, and confused. I struggled with health issues, frustration, and often, despair.

My journey of seeking help began with an acupuncturist. As I worked with him on my physical issues, I started to learn the importance of the relationship and connections among the physical, emotional and spiritual/energetic parts of myself. A whole "new" world, with eons of healing traditions and practices was opened up to me.

For the better part of the last 3 decades I've sought connection with truth. I've engaged in deep study of the training, practices and universal principles which helped me to completely transform my life. As I sought to figure out what "makes me tick", and expanded my awareness of myself, I learned that I had a gift of guiding others through this process, too. 

I am called to help people know themselves deeply  

I teach and coach my clients to develop healthy and healing practices. The purpose of these is to foster communication, and to create lasting transformation by learning how to follow their true path and purpose. I'm looking forward to having you join me!

Kathleen Graffunder

Kathleen Graffunder

Here's What You Get
When You Join the
Life By Design 
Pilot Program

As a Pilot Program and Founding Member of the "Life By Design" Program, you get Lifetime access to all of the course materials - 


Weekly assignments and exercises to support and promote your integration and transformation throughout the program, worksheets, PDF summaries, checklists, homework, audio files, and recordings of all sessions!

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For each of the 8 weeks that we have a training call, we will also have an Office Hours call, for targeted support, accountability, feedback, and open forum discussion. These juicy group calls are meant to help you process the material we're working on and connect to others in the group for an even more enriching and effective experience.


What People Are Saying...


"The obstacle or hesitation that may have prevented me from using Kathleen as a coach are my own reservations to trust in the possible positive outcomes of coaching and my past closed minded approach to life."

“The result(s) I found after having Kathleen as a coach were life changing. I was able to take a look at my life from the outside, discovered how my ingrained thought patterns about my life and how I perceived it were ready to be challenged and changed. I find myself to be more confident, less angry and generally at peace with my life.

The specific feature(s) I liked about Kathleen as a coach was her strong personality, direct conversation and honesty. She has an ability to get to the heart of the matter and get you to think about your life in a new way.

Other benefits about Kathleen's coaching services are:

  • Directly getting you to focus on who you are at heart
  • Opened my eyes to a new and improved vision in life.
  • She challenged me to be comfortable with who I was as an individual and with where I was in my life. And to then be okay with changing it all for an improved version of myself and life.

I would definitely recommend Kathleen as a coach. She is a very intelligent, honest and forthright person. She has an outlook on life that challenges people to change the way they think and get out of the "rut" we all seem to fall into at times.

I believe Kathleen has a gift to change people lives for the better. If you're ready for a life change, a more honest look at your life and personal results I would recommend taking the time to talk to Kathleen. She has the ability to change the course of your life, like she did mine, if you are willing to take the chance.

Aris Nicolopoulos


Michael Markoe: Before

Michael Markoe: After

"I lost 170 lbs. on my personal journey with Kathleen, but gained much more--a sense of self awareness and confidence that would never have been possible without her."

“I met Kathleen at a pivotal point in my life when I was depressed, about 150 lbs. overweight and going through a divorce.

She immediately took a sincere interest in me and we talked about how she could enable me to help myself.

I did not know what to expect upon hiring her as a coach but the more we spoke, the more she inspired me to make the necessary changes in my lifestyle. She introduced me to a whole new world of nutrition as well as healthy approaches to the stresses of life.

Kathleen has a gift of making you feel like you are the most important person in the room; she devotes quality time in focusing on your own personal well-being. I never felt judged, or like I was "on the clock". She generously gave of her time and extensive knowledge to me.

I lost 170 lbs. on my personal journey with Kathleen, but gained much more--a sense of self awareness and confidence that would never have been possible without her.

I would not hesitate to recommend her to anyone who needs the support of a dedicated guide through a lifestyle transformation.”

Michael Markoe

Is The
"Life By Design" 
Program Right For You?

Here’s what I believe about you, just because you're here and reading this page... 

You’re already an experienced journeyer - someone who has seen the value of self-development, and invested your time, energy and effort into developing yourself. I believe there are things here that will be beneficial to you - no matter where you are on your journey - to help you move forward more powerfully, effectively, and purposefully!



(or until the course is full, whichever is first)

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Accelerate Your Soul's Purpose Personalized Coaching Session

Your Soul's Purpose is not a job or a set of tasks that you have to do. It is the innate Purpose that your Soul has come here to fulfill, and it guides your life experience whether you know it or not. 

When you are in alignment with your Soul's Purpose and Gifts, everything flows smoother. When you're not... not so much flow... Life can seem challenging and complicated, and we can get caught in repeating negative patterns over and over.

In this personalized, 1-1 session, I will guide you through my process of accelerating your awareness of and connection with your Soul's Purpose and Gifts. I will also guide you in working with its principles so that you can more clearly see the choices available to you in any moment.

VALUE: $ 375             Included with your enrollment!



Clearing Sessions

Throughout the course, we have 5 clearing calls to work on identifying and releasing limiting beliefs, blocks, and old patterns. This gives you multiple opportunities to take stock of what's been holding you back, get out of your own way, plan your "next steps", and achieve the success in life you want and deserve.

VALUE: $ 497             Included with your enrollment!



Understand your unique constitution and your unique nutritional needs that will support optimum health and wellness throughout your journey. Here, you'll learn how to recognize, navigate, and work with the flux and evolution of your nourishment needs

VALUE: $179             Included with your enrollment! 

Total Value of Bonus Items INCLUDED in the Pilot Program = $ 375 + 497 + 179 = $ 1,051!

*All Pilot Program Founding Members

have the opportunity to upgrade to additional

One-on-One packages at special rates!

= 5 x 30 minute Personalized Coaching Calls 

(used during and immediately after the program): $ 998  $ 398!

(or until the course is full, whichever is first)

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